While young we used to talk about marriage as an institution.The literate modern educated well employed lavishly spending widely traveling fast(est)food addict empowered females are deeply disturbed by the superfluous restrictions of marriage.To avoid giving in to "male supremacy" they bluntly refuse to change their surnames or gotras.Next best they use two surnames like Indira Nehru Gandhi ,Sonia Maino Gandhi , Hillary Rodham Clinton, Madhuri Dixit Nene etc.Mother in law is a Xantippe for brides. So they prefer to stay away from the joint family and gave a new name to family . It is called the "nuclear family". Cooking , cleaning dish washing laundry shopping are done by males more often and this is called "sharing" domestic work. Children no . Only one child and that too not now .Child care and baby sitting are done by mother in law briefly on demand.Christening the new born is novel .Names must be fashionable mono syllables like Ash, Vas or Yash .
Two fiercely independent couple soon get into ego(for nothing) clash. This clash about a non issue IS THE FOUNDATION FOR THE NOVEL INSTITUTION OF DIVORCE. Clash staying for more than 24 hrs takes them to counselors,therapists and doctors . If nothing works there are Pundits,Pastors, Mullas, lawyers,judges and why not police ? The press and TV are hungry . They thrive on divorce as their principal meal.www.divorce.com is a good web site.
Any divorce hereafter must be announced,celebrated and partied . Kids must be taken care of by responsible society.
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Dear Uncle, this is an interesting write up and I aggree with most of it!! however, what if the girl is trying to save the relationsip or trying to start a new one and the boy has many demands! I call it tje perspective of two individuals :)
ReplyDeletesomewhere i heard this "the reason for the divorce is marriage"
Stay together ,work together and P R A Y together for a "happy married life". Even political policies of the government cause divorce. Liberalisation removed government jobs. So working couple can not stay in a single place.They can not work together and can not pray together.Happy married life motivates couple for a compromise. Couple living away from each other miss physical emotional and social attachment . So VIRGINITY loses sanctity. And so does marriage.Two or more ORGASMS(I am being very serious) a week keep any couple together for a life time . A boy who can give and get these will not demand much . I am a doctor and so I talk without inhibitions . Westerners are used to divorce only because many couple live away from each other. Now Indians are westernised while the West learns Yoga and Vedas. Doctor couple , Engineer couple Lawyer couple and Business couple living together don`t divorce. I REVEALED THE TOP SECRET NOW. I will write another blog soon
ReplyDeleteHow many girls are willing to give up their jobs for good or temporarily to stay with their husbands ? Or how many well educated lavishly earning girls are willing to settle for a less educated less earning groom for a happy communion ?
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